Losing a loved one is a difficult time and choosing a headstone to commemorate their life can be a daunting task. In addition to selecting the right design and materials, it’s crucial to ensure that the headstone complies with UK regulations and headstone etiquette.
At Summers Memorials in Bristol, we understand the importance of honouring your loved one’s memory with a fitting memorial. With over a century of experience in crafting high-quality headstones across Bristol and surrounding areas, we have the expertise to guide you through the process.
In this comprehensive guide, we’ll cover everything you need to know about headstone etiquette and regulations in the UK.
Securing a Grave
When it comes to securing a grave for your loved one, funeral arrangement specialists, such as your funeral director, will usually take care of the process.
The funeral company you choose will guide you through the process of handling remains, conducting the funeral service according to the deceased’s wishes, and selecting the burial plot location.
Once the plot has been chosen and secured, you will receive a Deed of Grant as the registered grave owner.
However, it’s essential to note that burial plots in cemeteries are leased rather than bought, and exclusive ownership belongs to the leaseholder or nominated parties for the duration of the lease, which typically runs for anywhere between 25 to 100 years.
Headstone Installation
In the UK, most cemeteries require a minimum waiting period of six months after the burial before a headstone can be installed on the grave.
Some may require a longer period to allow the ground to settle correctly and prevent potential problems, such as sinking headstones.
It’s important to check the cemetery’s regulations for any restrictions on memorial types, stone colours, and decorations.
Choosing a local memorial stonemason with expert knowledge of local cemeteries and churchyards can be invaluable in navigating these regulations and ensuring that the headstone complies with all necessary rules and etiquette.
Churchyards
When it comes to churchyards, the rules may be even stricter, with inscriptions closely scrutinised and permitted wordings at the discretion of each individual parish priest, who is bound by Diocese Churchyard Regulations.
It’s not uncommon for vicars to object to certain wordings or symbols on gravestone inscriptions, such as the use of kisses or nicknames.
Memorial Ornaments
In addition to headstones, memorial ornaments such as vases and photo plaques can be a meaningful way to honour your loved one’s memory.
However, it’s essential to check the cemetery’s regulations regarding the use of these items.
At Summers Memorials, we offer expert advice on the use of memorial vases, photo plaques, and other grave memorials in local cemeteries in Bristol and surrounding areas.
Choosing a headstone to commemorate your loved one’s life is a personal and important decision.
By understanding UK regulations and headstone etiquette, you can ensure that their memory is honoured with a fitting and respectful memorial.
Summers Memorials in Bristol are committed to providing and installing high-quality, bespoke headstones and memorials that are crafted with care and attention to detail. Contact us today to discuss your requirements and receive expert guidance on headstone etiquette and regulations in the UK. Simply call 0117 955 7676, e-mail info@summersmemorials.co.uk or complete our simple online contact form.
